Gaia Wise Campaigns for Improved Services to Fight Eating Disorders
Gaia, the daughter of Greg Wise and Emma Thompson, is campaigning for better services to fight eating disorders – after detailing her own three-year battle with anorexia.
The aspiring actress, now 21, developed anorexia at the age of 16, which left her so skinny that she was unable to sit in a chair without it being painful. She was then admitted to rehab in 2017.
Gaia, who has partnered with psychotherapist Noel McDermott who runs independent mental health services, provided advice to those struggling with eating disorders, based on her own recovery experience. .
Cause: Gaia, daughter of Greg Wise and Emma Thompson, campaigns for better services to fight eating disorders – after detailing her own three-year battle with anorexia (pictured 2019)
She said, “Forgiveness is the key. Being kind to yourself is the key. There is no perfect recovery and if you slip, it is important to be compassionate.
“And it’s important to be honest with the people around you and not be ashamed. Never be ashamed of your recovery. You do it perfectly for you. So remember that. And enjoy it! ‘
Psychotherapist Noel added: “Great advice from Gaia, because bringing the fun of the holiday season is what we want for those recovering from erectile dysfunction, not just a reduction in their symptoms.”
Gaia has once credited her parents with saving her life by organizing an emergency response.
Family First: Gaia is pictured with parents Greg and Emma in 2019 – she credited them for saving her life
She first spoke about her illness with The sun on sunday, saying ‘Anorexia makes you really good at enlightening people, which makes them look like they’re crazy. My parents would say, ‘Gaia, we heard you practice at 3 a.m.’ And I was like, ‘No you didn’t, it was just the house moving. I was asleep.”
Gaia explained how Greg, 55, Emma, 62, his family, including his brother Tindy, 35, and his best friend came together for a procedure, with Gaia agreeing to rehab three months later. as Greg said, “I don’t know where my kid is anymore.
Adding that it was a “kick in the teeth”, she added: “I had to listen to the people I loved the most in the world and who, at the time, I had really forgotten, tell me this. that I was doing. ”
She said, ‘That’s when I said I was going to rehab. I went there on December 29, 2017 and stayed there for three months. Since then, I have had a lot of therapy – and I will always be grateful for it, because it saved my life.
She said: She said, “Forgiveness is the key. Being kind to yourself is the key. There’s no perfect recovery and if you slip it’s important to be compassionate ‘(pictured in April on the right and during her battle with anorexia on the left)
Anorexia is a serious mental illness in which a person limits their food intake, often resulting in severe underweight. Many also exercise excessively.
Some sufferers may experience periods of binge eating, followed by a purge. People with the condition often have a distorted view of themselves and think that they are taller than they really are.
Gaia believes the anorexia was caused when her aunt Clare, Greg’s sister, was diagnosed with breast cancer and then later moved in with their family.
She said: “I wanted not to be a problem, to be in control because everything else was falling apart. I was so focused on my thinness that I didn’t have time to think about anything else. It drowned out everything I couldn’t handle.
Greg looked after Clare before her death in 2016 at the age of 51.
Speaking about her time in rehab, she said she was allowed to be angry during therapy but still exercised, which she likened to being an alcoholic in having a drink.
Gaia explained in detail that while battling the disease, she covered herself in fluffy hair to keep her warm because she was so thin – which led her mother Emma to call her her “little mole. “.
She also explained how she would resort to lying and hiding food in her clothes, before scattering it around the garden, to hide her battle with the eating disorder.
Gaia also went through family therapy sessions with her loved ones that involved “a lot of screaming and crying,” but attributes these sessions to why she “still has a relationship with her family.”
She has now been recovering for almost two years.
In 2017, Emma spoke fondly about anorexia, while her own daughter was secretly battling the disease, stating: “There are so many children – girls and boys – and actresses now who just don’t eat. not. They don’t eat.
“Sometimes there are subjects that you absolutely have to make noise about.
Path to recovery: Her family have supported her all the way and has now been in recovery for three years (pictured above with her brother Tindyebwa)
Gaia first took to Instagram in April to share her experience with the eating disorder alongside a comparative photo of herself.
She wrote: “So many people are showing fabulous body changes that they have achieved in the last few years or during lockdown. The majority that I have seen are about weight loss. I decided to share something. something a little different; my journey from anorexia to a healthy body.
“Much of it has been a battle, but I am now 18 months in a stable and happy weight range. I was terrified to share this, but thought it might help to see the opposite … who knows … it might even be helpful to another human. I don’t know, but I do know that sharing takes me even further away from the shame of an eating disorder.
“Anorexia is the deadliest mental illness that exists in humans and – even on the days that I am struggling – I am so proud to have gone from left to right (figuratively in this photo … ha !). Since the first photo was taken the most important thing that has changed is that I have moved into my own apartment.
“It doesn’t sound like a lot, but if you had told me 16 months ago that I would have been safe, stable and happy enough to take care of a house, I probably would have slapped you in the face to make it clear.
“And yet we are there. I tagged some amazing humans without whom I couldn’t have completed this journey, but there are many of you and I hope you know how much I cherish you.
If you have been affected by any of the story topics, please call Beat: The UK’s Eating Disorder Charity on 0808 801 0677
WHAT IS ANOREXIA?
Anorexia is a serious mental illness in which a person limits their food intake, often resulting in severe underweight.
Many also exercise excessively.
Some sufferers may experience periods of binge eating, followed by a purge.
People with the condition often have a distorted view of themselves and think that they are taller than they really are.
Left untreated, patients may experience loss of muscle and bone strength, as well as depression, low libido, and cessation of menstruation in women.
In severe cases, patients may experience heart problems and organ damage.
Behavioral signs of anorexia include people saying they have eaten before or will eat later, as well as counting calories, missing meals, hiding food, and eating slowly.
In addition to weight loss, sufferers may experience insomnia, constipation, bloating, feeling cold, hair loss, and swelling of the hands, face, and feet.
Treatment focuses on therapy and support groups to encourage healthy eating and coping mechanisms.
Source: Fight eating disorders